The Opposite

of Belonging

is Fitting In!

Some symptoms that result from fitting in are imposter syndrome and the feeling of overwhelm. Fitting in can create a feeling of isolation even when we are with others and we may feel a continual search for our life’s purpose.

To fit in, we asses the circumstance and become who we believe we need to to be to be accepted. It’s time to let go of those limiting belief systems (bs).

When we first arrive on this planet, we have a deep connection to our spiritual state, to that beyond which we see. All of us received conditioning from some or all of family, cultural, societal, and religious units. Conditioning that said to us, “this is who you are” based on your family’s status, country of origin, religion, gender beliefs and thousands of large and small notions of what it means to be you in this world. That conditioning adds layers and layers of that which is not us.

There is a reason you are here today.

Let me hold the space while you open to your remembered connection. All that you are and came to be here in this life are within you. There is nothing you need to add, it is a process of removing that which no longer serves you. There is a way to retrieve that true you.

A true sense of belonging allows you be a part of something greater than yourself, while also having he courage to stand alone and belong to yourself.